2021.10.25 06:54 OpinionatedData I feel like I'm cheating even though I'm not
I've been in an LDR for 2 years now and at times I feel like I'm cheating. My boyfriends schedule and mine are very different and I love him very much but thought about ending our relationship. He used to actually put time in our conversations and used to love calling 1-2 times a week. This has changed but he claims his feelings haven't and is VERY against breaking up or taking breaks.
Because I've talked about taking a break a few times it seems he cares less and less until he actually feels I'm serious. It's not really towards him to just leave our problems there but also to better myself and take time enjoying other things than worrying about one thing constantly and my intents are positive and not to make him worry. As he seems to care less and less he still constantly says he's happy but it feels like it isn't a relationship anymore more because we don't call anymore and our conversations are dry.
I was the girl to focus on him and not balance my relationships and make friends. I'm also chronically ill so I found a way to feel good and make friends which was turning to gaming. I've made tons of friends and this doesn't just relate to gaming but a lot of the friends I've made make sexual jokes. Sometimes towards me or other people but when we call alone is when I feel like I'm sort of cheating.
Even if it isn't people who game I still don't make sexual remarks towards them and if I feel uncomfortable I usually leave or make a joke that includes mentioning my boyfriend. I don't call with my boyfriend anymore because he won't call with me so I call this one guy often at night and game with him. I mentioned my boyfriend and he make a sort of joke saying to call him gay if my boyfriend asked even though the friendship is platonic.
While I feel majority of my friends don't like me like that whether it's related to gaming or not some people do and it's usually a few guy friends. Again I never make sexual jokes to them and I'd tell my boyfriend if he'd actually talk to me a bit more. My boyfriend has said before I'm oblivious when people flirt to me and says at times I can be an unintentional flirt without realizing it. I'm not sure how to feel the fine line between being a friend and being TOO friendly. Another thing is my actual close friends tell me not to tell my boyfriend about every interaction because It'll just make him jealous.
My overall question is how to realize whether someone's flirting or not and how to stick towards the friendly line without having to end relationships with friends.
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2021.10.25 06:54 Additional_Fold7154 WHY TF DO I SLEEP SO MUCH
I genuinely hate it so much. Every time I sit to study, I get distracted or I immediately fall asleep. Each time this happens I get pissed at myself so much but I can't stop myself from sleeping and getting distracted. It's been more than a year and I haven't been able to study properly. I miss studying religiously man. Can you all give me tips on how to not get distracted and not sleep?
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2021.10.25 06:54 Immediate-Form-2262 Mega Man VS Optimus Prime (Archie Comics VS IDW) Connections in Comment
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2021.10.25 06:53 Charitra_10 Games IN MCC All Stars
With All Stars just round the corner , I wanted to ask what games would be in rotation, will they be the same as the current ones or will they add back old games like PW, Rocket spleed to make it nostalgic???
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2021.10.25 06:53 Ravenclaw_1103 What celebrity does everyone seem to like but you get a bad vibe?
2021.10.25 06:53 cherubsmokingajoint My baby weeping fig is soooo thirsty. It’s begging for water every 2-3 days. It that normal? More info in comments!!
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2021.10.25 06:53 Horror-Ad-9198 Ghost of Tsushima | Stealth Gameplay | PS5 | Snow Hunt
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2021.10.25 06:53 PokeMeBoy Made a sexy look for Halloween party 💙
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2021.10.25 06:53 rabengeieradlerstein What is the most poetic thought that you ever had?
2021.10.25 06:53 watan592 انقلاب واعتقال أغلب أعضاء مجلس الوزراء والسيادة في السودان
2021.10.25 06:53 navraj31 Cant wait to drive this in FH5 next week!
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2021.10.25 06:53 HyejooMyBeloved is this just water?? shes suddenly very slow and seems weak pls suggestions as to whats going on?? :(
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2021.10.25 06:53 Normaleenice Fluffy belly <3
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2021.10.25 06:53 Flareherondale Which is your favourite side book and why?
I'd have to say Tales from the Shadowhunter Academy is mine, I love the fact Simon got his own story and also you get to learn more about James Herondale and Matthew Fairchild.
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2021.10.25 06:53 watan592 سطو مسلح على بنك فلسطين فرع يعبد جنوب جنين..فيديو
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2021.10.25 06:53 AlternativerBOT Alice Weidel: Kimmich-Debatte offenbart übergriffiges Bevormundungs-Denken
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2021.10.25 06:53 huxta03 Single people, come get married to each other in the comments
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2021.10.25 06:53 reddit_feed_bot DailyCaller: Aaron Rodgers Drops The Hammer On 'Woke Cancel Culture.' Every American Needs To Hear His Message https://t.co/bULmp3zQw5
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2021.10.25 06:53 Mysterious-Extreme15 Anything you would change?
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2021.10.25 06:53 watan592 مسار التفوق منصة تعليم تستعرض خدماتها التعليمية والمعلوماتية
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2021.10.25 06:53 StarkMaximum In DnD 5e, what do you do with combat?
Recently I've started a small 5e excursion using a terrain generator to do a little adventure across a hex map. I went with 5e because it was late at the time and I needed something easy and well known so I would be comfortable going through it. I've done two sessions, which have gone okay, but I've noticed in both sessions the combat that got involved ended up really against my character. I know this is obviously because combat in DnD is balanced under the assumption that you have four party members, but I thought I had been working around that by using minimum number of appearing creatures. But the combat at the end of my second session made me realize I'm definitely doing this wrong and I don't think I had a ghost of a chance to get out well. So I probably need to do something with it.
I need to be clear, I don't want to cut combat entirely. I'm playing a barbarian and the thrill of overcoming encounters with physical prowess, whether it be combat or athletics, is part of the appeal. And I don't want to just make it incredibly easy for me. I want that fantasy of a lone hero turning aside multiple mooks, and I want to use my class mechanics rather than just work around it. I have some thoughts that I might put into practice next time, but I want to hear how other people handle it too.
In order to even out the action economy, I had thought of using "heroic actions", which are legendary actions but for player characters. I want them to scale, so I was thinking of basing them on either your class's core stat, or your proficiency, and the baseline list of heroic actions are "move", "attack/action", and "make a save", to keep your hero mobile, active, and resilient, and some unique class-based ones could come later.
I thought about having all enemies roll 1s for their HP dice, so a 10d8+20 bandit captain gets a baseline 28 HP, as well as possible using the minion mechanic where flunkies go down with one attack. But I'm starting at level 1 so that's still one mook per turn while the others whale on my dude.
I also thought about reducing combat to just a few dice rolls, doing some skill checks and attack rolls and determining a winner from there. But that feels too much like just cutting combat entirely and I don't know if it'd be as satisfying as rolling for my attacks and marking damage on the enemy.
And I don't want to just "not play 5e". I'd love to explore other RPG systems in future adventures but for my first one and for being so late at night when I started, I just needed my security blanket rather than something new and untested, alright?
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2021.10.25 06:53 jazza127 Opinions if this is asbestos? Will likely get it tested anyway but keen to hear thoughts please?
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